# "We were in a relationship - NOW She Wants to Just Be Friends"
"We were in a relationship - NOW She Wants to Just Be Friends"
Dear work bro,
I was seeing this girl for about 6 wks [minus sex] when she decided that she did not want to be involved in a relationship at that time in her life.
We had not seen each for about 3 wks when she contacted me and was making small talk. She called again a couple of days later and asked why I hadn't called her back.
After a week, I sent an email to her and said "Hi."
She responded with "Well, it took you long enough."
Ever since then, we have been hanging out again, but she is focusing on her career now and can't devote enough time towards a relationship. She sounds closer than she was before, but still is not committed to dating.
We talked about this today and we are going to remain "friends" and still hang out, but with no strings attached.
She knows how I feel about her. I don't love her, but I could.
We are perfect for each other...we both agree. But, for some reason, the relationship will not go any further with this career thing on her mind.
My question to you is...should I remain friends with her and still hang out and kiss and stuff or should I just walk away?
I really don't want to lose her as a friend. I am thinking that she may come around eventually and I'll be there for her.
It's a tough call, but I need some pointers and some advice.
Thank you,
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